Diary of a Gay Spinster: A Look Inside (EPISODE ONE)


B is for Bold

“Diary of a Gay Spinster: A Look Inside” is a 4-part series that brings together film, writing, music and fashion. It is with these four things that I am able to express my thoughts and my work, and share my experiences in order to better understand our journeys in life. Topics include: being bold, body image, suicide, creative non-fiction, success and knowing your worth.

Today we bring to you episode one: B is for Bold.

xoxo Robby Rob Read More

Secret Project Title Revealed!


We are super excited to announce the title of our SECRET PROJECT!

Episode 1 of “Diary of a Gay Spinster: A Look Inside” Premieres Oct. 7th!

xoxo Robby Rob

My ‘Thirst’ Got VERY REAL at a Coffee Shop


We all have those thirsty phases. Actually, let’s be real, I’m pretty much thirsty at all times. I’m in a constant state of thirst. Perhaps you are too. Maybe we should join a support group.

For those of you who don’t know, being “thirsty” doesn’t just mean you need a tall glass of water to drink. It also could mean that you are desperate for some male/female attention (depending on what you like or what you’re in the mood for that day) and you make it so obviously known that it makes you look unattractive and just plain old THIRSTY. You can’t always stop the thirst. Sometimes you just wanna quench, but what you can do is learn to control it, or keep your thirst under wraps.

I shamelessly demonstrated some intense thirst this week. Read More

My Night at the Drag Show (Part Two)

Read Part One here

You know that feeling you get when you’re so unfamiliar with a situation that you have no words? Read More

My Night at the Drag Show (Part One)


I decided tonight would be the night to start feeling like myself again.  Read More

A Kiss Can Change Everything


Someone once said to me, “Slow and steady wins the race.”

But honestly, I don’t really see that as a suitable theory when it comes to giving your heart to someone. Read More

PREMIERE: #SecretProject Trailer


I am very proud to present the first trailer for our #SecretProject with Wired Elephant Studios.

Stay tuned for more details.


xoxo Robby Rob

Know Your Worth


I woke up with a heavy feeling in my heart.

It’s not that I had been stricken with guilt and madness; I was completely overcome with peace. It was just the part of me that had to say it, the part of me that needed to be released so my heart could let go. My mind had already moved on, ideas spreading around in my head like a summer mister, lubricating my imagination and preparing my creativity to head in a new direction.

Today, I was going to quit.

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I’m Done Feeling Ashamed of My Body


What will it take for us to stop feeling so ashamed about our bodies?

On multiple occasions, I have found myself looking at the mirror, pulling and pushing at different body parts, struggling to imagine what my body would look like if I could just lose at least 15 pounds. I have had moments where I find myself completely disgusting and repulsive, so much so that I would make up excuses not to go out when I had plans. I’ve missed a wedding, two networking events, a halloween party, and several other events where my presence was requested. I even almost backed out of going to New York City for the first time, and had I listened to my insecurities, I never would have interned in NYC last summer. I have backed out and I have refused invites because I “didn’t feel good” when really, “I didn’t look good.” Or at least, that was what I would tell myself. Read More

Spring Awakening

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Spring Awakening is a project that has come together over the course of two months.

Inspired by my friend Eugene who asked me, “What are you doing for YOU?”, I realized I was in need of renewal, in need of a Spring Awakening.

For the next few weeks, Diary of a Gay Spinster will be in full force, as I share the stories of my own Spring Awakening. Hopefully, I can inspire more people to spread love, live young and BE BOLD.

Read Spring Awakening here:

I’m Done Feeling Ashamed of My Body
Spring Awakening | Part One
Spring Awakening | Part Two
Spring Awakening | Part Three
Spring Awakening | Part Four
Spring Awakening | Part Five
Spring Awakening | Part Six

Check back daily for updates!



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Hey loves.

Here’s the latest trailer for our #SECRETPROJECT with Wired Elephant Studios, featuring “GRAVITATE” by Chris Marsanico! For more of Chris’ music, check out his SoundCloud. Read More

#SecretProject Premieres Oct. 7!


Hey loves!

We are so excited to share with you some juicy details about our Secret Project! Watch the video below for more details.

xoxo Robby Rob



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